As difficult as it may feel now, learning how to manage conflict in
college is one of the many ways to make the most of your college experience. The type of conflict you experience in college will most likely be experienced out
of college, too.
For example:
- classmate not doing her share of the team project....coworker not doing his share of the team project
- not understanding what an instructor wants from you/for assignments....not understanding what a supervisor wants from you
- college roommate is too clingy, but you don't want to hurt his
feelings....coworker/colleague is too clingy, but you don't want to hurt
her feelings
- disagree on how to complete class project....disagree on how to complete work project
Consult your advisors or other university employees (e.g., Student Affairs employees) for guidance on
how to handle difficult situations. Discuss what you did, how you did
it, why you did it that way and receive feedback about the experience. You'll strengthen
your relationships with these professionals by seeking their feedback
and you'll gain insight into how you may choose to handle conflict in
the future.
Read books such as
Difficult Conversations and watch online videos such as
this (log-in required) to learn more about how to manage conflict.